There are two poles in any energetic or magnetic exchange: the positive pole and the negative pole. The feminine principle is the negative pole, or lower valley, towards which energy dissipates. While we can understand femininity in and of itself, I would like to look at the astrological statistics regarding women who are in long-term heterosexual relationships today as well as the definition of the term "wife material."
In order to determine which placements bestow upon women not only a blessed sexual and marital union, but also an innate understanding of the feminine principle, I gathered the birth data on 119 women in long-term marriages/relationships (15+ years). These relationships either still exist or have only ever ended with the death of one of the spouses. I purposely included a sizable number of celebrities in my analysis, as the temptations and decisions that come with being extremely wealthy and glamorous add a level of difficulty that most people do not encounter in their daily lives.
Note: This research is based on sidereal Vedic astrology. Western/tropical placements, principles and interpretations do not apply to it.
Stay tuned for the research on the "Husband Material" zodiac signs
In Part 1, we are going to explore the following-
The top Moon placements- nakshatra, sign, house
The top planet in the 1st house
Keep in mind, I am not saying that a woman who does not possess these signs cannot be wife-material. Rather, having these signs at birth gives a woman an innate curiosity and a simple grasp of how to navigate relationships and femininity. Delving into these placements unlocks the secrets of how the feminine functions in a partnership, whether or not you have these placements.
Let us view the results by Sign first and then discuss the nakshatras.
The Martian Energy
The Moon's top placement is shared by two of the three Mars nakshatras: Dhanishtha (23°20′ Capricorn to 6°40′ Aquarius) and Chitra (23°20′ Virgo to 6°40′ Libra), and Moon-ruling Sravan nakshatra (10° to 23°20′ Capricorn).
More shockingly, Mars was also the top planet in the ascendant or 1st house, whereas traditionally, it is said to cause Mangal/Kuja Dosh (discord in marriage or harm to/from the spouse) in women's lives. According to this research, it does appear to have some positive effects.
All Mars nakshatras are partially placed in the earth signs and are physically pitta/पित्त or fire type in Ayurveda. They are also the servant caste in Vedic astrology and denoting servitude and a willingness to submit. Even with spiritual interests, women with any Mars dominance or a well placed Mars are generally grounded and put immense amounts of focus on self care and maintenance of their bodies. This helps them regulate their emotions since emotions are more closely associated with the water element, which is unstable and erratic. Therefore, when they sense a lack of energy from their male partner for whatever reason, they pull back and prioritise their own well-being and self-care, rather than pursuing the man in a desperate manner. Their energy is more magnetic and captivating since they are fixated on their own attractiveness rather than the activities of their partner.
Jessica Alba (Dhanishtha Moon) talks about the importance of self-care for a long-lasting marriage.
In Ayurveda, Mars rules the muscles, so these women have naturally defined muscles, but not in a masculine way; instead, these muscles show up as curves in 'all the right places.' They have tremendous power over the material world, both in terms of wealth and sexuality, because people's inability to control their own sexual centers causes them to project their wealth and mental projections onto any woman who has a beautiful/'triggering' body. This rapidly generating energy can often draw many partners and exploitative individuals into their lives. But since these women are sensitive of the risks that frequently befall the feminine form, they are more interested in the security that men can offer them in the material world than in the physical appearances of men.
Since Mars rules the Muladhar/Root Chakra, women with any significant Mars influence are adept at controlling powerful emotions since they are more physiologically oriented and continuously listen to and follow their bodies.
While many women find 'bad boys' sexy, I have heard countless Mars dominant women (in my personal life and otherwise) say they are only attracted to a more strong/firm yet gentle form of masculinity even as teenagers when people tend to be more reckless. In regards to fetishes and enjoying pain or rough/harsh sexual behavior, Mars women are more likely to only enjoy 'everything nice and sweet' and not painful. On the negative side, their extremely arousing bodies make them vulnerable to (sometimes extreme) sexual projections and physical harm from their partners. For this reason, they consciously or unconsciously recognise the value of having a protective male partner. Until they meet a man who is incredibly patient and steady, they cut themselves off from all love and sexual relationships. Their magnetic bodies also provide them a constant source of energy from the masses which reduces the 'empty' feeling that causes many women to feel lonely rush into random relationships.
Mars women use a more masculine approach to life decisions, emotions, and other aspects of life in general. Having experienced the dangers of male projections and realizing that women are generally more vulnerable to harm, they have a deep connection with the male psyche and use it to connect with men in a way that causes them the least amount of suffering. This is how these women not only try to stay protected in the material world but also learn the beautiful art of seduction, innately or otherwise. They know exactly what turns men on and what triggers them in different ways, which also makes them desirable to many different kinds of men. Their remarkably feminine physical attributes make them irresistibly alluring to men, who also find them sympathetic and internally comforting. In this sense, they embody the feminine physicality while projecting a male behavioural ideal. While most women are generally seen as 'clingy' or overly-emotional, Mars women, through putting the focus onto themselves, manage to stay distant which pushes men to pursue them further.
One of Hollywood's finest seductresses, Marilyn Monroe (Dhanishtha Moon), is seen using the "triangle method" of seduction in the clip above.
Mars is the general or commander in a battle according to Vedic astrology. It is also the karaka of the 3rd house (which represents grit, courage, community, neighbours, hobbies, skills of hands, routines, etc.) and the 6th house (which represents daily life, coworkers, the material world, enemies, obstacles, debts, etc.), both of which are generally more concerned with more earthly, material matters. It is interesting to note that the Moon was placed highest in the 3rd house, while Rahu was placed highest in the 6th house, both of which tower over the other houses by a significant margin. Both of these strongly emphasise the need for a woman to indulge her senses in the material world. These earthy, Martian forces help her to become a 'test' or 'temptation' for a man in his more ascetic spiritual path.
Moon and Emotions
The 3rd house is symbolic of communities, communication, manual skills (writing, drawing, etc.), etc. Socialization is critical to the development of femininity because it essentially allows women to receive more energy and "eyes" toward themselves. Women develop femininity in communities and groups, whereas men develop masculinity in isolation. Women need to be perceived in order to obtain energy, while men need to isolate themselves in order to avoid exhausting themselves. For this reason, women are typically associated with detail-oriented fields that have an impact on the masses, such as marketing, networking, beauty, and fashion, while traditional masculinity is represented by solitary pursuits (or in smaller groups of two to three) like hunting, woodworking, hiking, fishing, etc. This is also the reason, as I mentioned in a previous post, that the idea of a metaphorical "man cave" exists—men retreat into solitude to refuel.
In addition, the 3rd house is associated with fundamental education or schooling, and the Moon in this sign signifies that a person is a "forever student," placing a woman in a position where she can freely express her own feelings and wishes while simultaneously being receptive to blessings and lessons from her male partner.
This leads us to Sravan nakshatra, which shares the top Moon position with Chitra and Dhanishtha. Sravan sits in the sign of Capricorn as the highest manifestation of Moon as the 3rd and last Moon-ruled nakshatra. It is the ultimate manifestation of the emotional aspect of the Moon, wherein the woman not only boldly expresses her own emotions but also brings out the emotionally vulnerable and gentle side of her male partner; this kind of expression of both, the 'good' and the 'bad', feels immensely liberating for both partners, and together they form a strong romantic bond supported by Saturn's longevity and stability in Sravan's Capricorn, as is with Dhanishtha's placement in Capricorn and Aquarius.
Because Sravan is a shudra (servant) caste nakshatra, it bestows upon a woman the power and desire to nourish; in the Vedas, Moon is often co-related with the nourishment provided by milk, which manifests as it being extremely selfless and service oriented. It finds pleasure in nourishing the family as well as adhering strictly to traditional masculine as well as feminine roles in the domestic life.
Conclusion
The most difficult thing most women will ever have to do in their lifetime is to stop viewing the art of seduction as something awkward, silly, cheap, or burdensome and instead embrace their own sexuality. Emotions have to be embraced and shared in the same way as a woman's body. A woman who is willing to liberate herself in this way will be blessed by the masculine principle while blessing him in return. Ultimately, the results of this research lead us to the startling conclusion that the madonna-whore complex is an illusion of the highest order, and that the best relationships are formed when the same woman is perceived as both the Madonna and the whore.
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